It's not required to get married when playing this RP site, but it will increase the fun to have family and children isnt it?
You can choose the one as your marriage candidate from any of the players.
It may get hard to choose who
you want be with, but I'm sure you'll decide sooner or later.
Once you get married you can still be interested in and pursue someone else.
But be careful this can lead to divorce and family problems!
And the lose of your current spouse and/or children!
But before you can get married there are some requirements you have to meet.
* House and Big Bed -
No one is going to want to live in that tiny little house you started out in.
Before you can wed, you have to hire Gotz to upgrade your house twice.
After you buy everything available and have your house as large as it can go, the Big Bed will
be for sale for a price of 10,000 G.
* Red Heart -
When you play as a boy and talk to each girl you can see how affectionate she is towards you by the color of the heart (there will appears if they are interested with you too, or you will be just a normal friend).
The only way you can tell they like you is by their heart scenes.
When you first start the game all of the girls/boys will be at a Black heart level because they don't know you very well even if their heart meter is invisible!
The more you talk to them, the better they get to know you. Some of the marriage candidates have specific things you have to do before they'll say I do. T
his can make things pretty tricky, but if your willing to go for them then its your duty to complete those tasks.
You can also give the potential brides/grooms gifts to help raise their love levels.
Each girl/boy likes different kinds of gifts and you can even gift-wrap them at Supermarket before you give them out.
A wrapped gift will give you better results then just giving the girl/boy a gift with no pretty paper on it.
Black -> Purple -> Blue -> Green -> Yellow -> Orange -> Red
* Getting Proposed To-
If you are playing as a girl and a certain boy has a red heart for you will only have 7 days to propose. If you do not he will propose to you. I
f you accept his proposal you two will be happily wed a week later.
However, if you do not accept his hand in marriage you will not be able to marry him any sooner, and the heart meter will decrease by 1 level because you have rejected them.
* Buy the Blue Feather -
When any person you are courting reaches an Orange heart color, the Blue Feather will be for
sale at Jeff's store. You can use the feather as a marriage proposal item when the person you're after reaches the Red heart level. If they accept your feather, and then you two can wed 7 days later.
* See all 5/6 Heart Events -
You must activate the person's you are trying to marry four heart events before they'll accept the Blue Feather. The heart events can trigger after you reached the black, purple, blue/green, and orange heart colors.
[copied from http://harvestmoon-rpg.forumotion.com/at-first-f1/heart-events-marriage-t403.htm#6884]